Was boring. A real incentive for continuing to read this post, right?.
I was out with seven women, and I have realised that they are boring the hole in me. I wanted a bit of fun, when you go out with intelligent, interesting women, and you just have fun. You talk, gossip, exchange this and that fashion or make-up tip, tell a joke.... Instead, all they did was complain about their things or just plain annoy me.
In this order of sitting: working two jobs and no money; annoyingly pleased that she's living with her boyfriend and his mother; boyfriend; boyfriend, work & life in general; former boyfriend; foreign country she lived in for the past 8 months; work.
I don't want to hear about anyone's problems. I simply refuse to do that. I do not complain, and I'm fed up with people who do, or even worse - who complain to me. For a while, I really did try to listen to everyone and be sympathetic.But not any more. Deal with your problems and problem shared is not problem solved.
And stop saying: I can imagine how hard it is for you without a job, because you can't. What you're saying is thoughtless, irritating, and makes you come across as a total twat.
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